Before you mention his name in your prayers, ask for his genotype first

Late last year around December, while working in the lab, I witnessed something that stayed in my mind. A young couple came in for premarital screening. It was about a week to their wedding. You could easily tell they were excited about the future ahead of them.

They sat together behind the waiting area, smiling and chatting happily. From their body language, you could see love, hope, and plans for a life they believed was already certain. Maybe they were talking about their wedding day or the life they were about to begin together. I couldn’t help but smile watching them.

A little while later, their results were ready. Unfortunately, their genotype showed they were incompatible. At that moment, the entire atmosphere changed.

The excitement disappeared instantly. The lady broke down in tears. The man sat there in shock, trying to process what had just happened. One week to their wedding, and suddenly they were faced with a decision that could change everything.

It was painful to watch, and honestly, I felt for them. Anyone would sympathize with that kind of situation. But deep down, we all knew the truth. That result, as difficult as it was, was actually saving them and protecting the future of their children.

This is why genotype awareness is so important. Love is beautiful, but love alone cannot prevent genetic diseases like Sickle Cell Disease. A simple test done early can save couples from heartbreak and protect innocent children from a lifetime of suffering.

Maybe it is time we normalize something new. Before you start planning forever with someone, ask about genotype. Not because love is less important, but because responsibility should come with love.

Before you mention his name in your prayer, ask for his genotype first.

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